Are you in an ungodly relationship with a narcissist

Are you in an Ungodly Relationship with a Narcissist 


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Here’s a summary of the YouTube video *"Are You in an Ungodly Relationship with a Narcissist?"* by The Faithful Voices of Women:

1. **Guest Introduction**: Erica Reyes shares her experience in a narcissistic relationship, exploring how such relationships affect self-worth and purpose.
2. **Early Signs of Narcissistic Behavior**: Erica talks about early signs like an intense desire for quick commitment and excessive curiosity about her past, which were red flags of narcissism.
3. **Self-Doubt and Emotional Manipulation**: She describes feeling crazy and questioning her sanity after arguments, often manipulated into doubting her own perspective.
4. **Criticism of Motherhood**: The narcissist criticized her parenting, undermining her confidence as a mother, even though he was not involved with his own children.
5. **Attraction to Narcissistic Relationships**: Erica reflects on how low self-esteem can lead to attracting narcissistic people who charm at first but later control and manipulate.
6. **Realization and Escape**: Erica recounts how, through prayer, she recognized the unhealthy relationship and began distancing herself, ultimately leading to her decision to leave.
7. **Impact on Self-Worth**: The narcissist made Erica feel unworthy and unattractive, causing her to believe no one would love her, which kept her in the relationship longer.
8. **Emotional and Financial Control**: Narcissistic behavior included attempts to control Erica’s career and financial stability, making her feel inadequate despite her accomplishments.
9. **Signs from God**: Erica shares how subtle signs from God throughout the relationship showed her it was time to leave, including a dramatic incident involving her car and another woman.
10. **Self-Love and Healing**: After leaving the relationship, Erica learned to value herself, strengthen her relationship with God, and realize her worth and beauty, independent of toxic relationships.